“If you are afraid, and fear you gonna change some, all you gotta do is just remember where you came from.” – Lupe Fiasco Day 4 in Beattie’s “The Language of Letting Go” deals with family issues. Everyone has them. They’re inescapable, necessary evils of life. Upon reading this part, I began to think about my solitary year in graduate school. I was halfway to a Masters in Counseling, one I never ended up completing (though I enjoyed it, I decided it wasn’t for me). One of the classes I took, a theories course, had a chapter about Alfred Adler…. I’m not done yet.